So, the posts so far haven't really explained why I chose the name I did for this blog. The truth is I've been dragging my feet about doing this for months and I finally just decided that like much in life if you don't just do it, it's not going to happen. For me perpetual procrastination frequently spawns out of the desire not to start until I know it can be perfect. Despite my strong Virgo tendencies I am trying to get over that. Tony is especially good at just doing stuff. I am trying to let his good instinct rub off.
For those of you who currently do not "pin" please be warned that it is addictive. I am a visual learner and to have a way to weed through loads of information with only a snapshot is dreamy. To be able to organize my own "things to remember" in a visual way as opposed to a list of text is equally awesome. It's kind of like a whole site of just scanning a magazine and then you can go back and read the articles you are really interested in. For me that's usually some DIY craft, an article about parenting, or a recipe.
And that brings me to why I'm finally doing this blog. As those close to me know, this year has not been the greatest... to...say...the...least. I am ready for June to roll around, look back, take stock, and move on. But as hellish as the summer felt, things have been much better lately. Maybe it's because the snow came and the winter has been just like a New England winter- and certainly not as bad as last year.
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| Notice the snow up to Tony's knees |
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| January 2011- Massachusetts |
Maybe it's because I've been going to the gym more often. Maybe it's because I finally feel like I have at least one girlfriend here that I can really (or at least mostly) be myself around. Maybe it's because Ada is really settling in to living here and making friends. Maybe it's because Emma is thriving and making me laugh so hard I howl. Maybe it's because Tony and I have finally figured out how to adapt and adapt and adapt to a crazy schedule that seems to get even more nuts as weeks and months go by. Maybe it's just time.
Whatever the reason, things are better.
Today I was lamenting about this time last year. Tony was finishing up interviews, and the snow just kept on coming- and it seemed to come hardest when he was away. Emma was still an infant and Ada was in school half an hour away from home which meant 2 hours of driving a day. It was worth it as Emma wasn't the best sleeper and as a nursing mom I was trying to sleep with her during the day so I could get up with her at night and not go too nuts with sleep deprivation. I was pumping and trying to store milk and figure out lessons for when I went back to work. Tony was away a bunch during the first couple months of Emma and at times it felt impossible. I remember trying to dwell on the fact that single parents do this all the time and don't get to talk to their partner in parenthood on the phone and have an emotional support. That I should be happy for what I have. But in the moment, I was not a fan.
Flash forward to this year. Emma is much more self reliant and most nights I can sleep uninterrupted so I don't feel so fragile. Ada is super helpful and awesome, and while she tests me to the point of ridiculousness she is doing great. I feel like if necessary, I could conquer the world... most days. The point? The tests I have been through this year have indeed made me a stronger woman.
Enter Pinterest.
So, since I love crafts, this is where I derive loads of inspiration for things to do with the girls: art projects, science experiments, games. The problem is you can get sucked into just gathering all these ideas and that becomes the hobby instead of just creating. Jonah Lisa wrote an awesome
article explaining the syndrome.
Her article inspired me to start making some of my "pins" and here I will share them with you. I sort of want a color code feature on Pinterest where I can mark the things I've made since I don't want to take them off my board, but I want to quickly and visually see what I have/ have not done. Here are a few of the "Pinterest-inspired" things we've done over here. If I can remember where I originally got the idea, the title is a link... but I admit that sometimes I just look at a bunch of similar things and through inspiration and what's on hand kind of go with it.
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Numbers written on foam in egg carton- can't remember where I got this one.

I spy Green tub |
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| Cookie monster cookies- we added the blue food coloring for Cookie Monster :) |
I'll post more soon- I need more time to find pictures and links.
So while Pinterest is not the reason I'm doing so much better in Minnesota, it does help me feel more productive and is a nice way to stay connected to some like-minded folks.
Thanks for reading.